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Had 3 deliveries go missing this year during holiday shopping. Two packages (a grinch and pair of khakis) never showed up! Second delivery (black dress pants) showed up 3 days later! Third deliver showed up 3 days later(package was opened and resealed! Didn’t want those x-large panties! Called po office and reported it on 3rd delivery - First Lady was very sympathetic but said carrier remembered putting it in my box- however when I called after receiving package postmaster said it was probably taken out of my box opened and put back in - didn’t take address and said she would ask substitute carrier to start taking pictures of where they put package! Odd that the two deliveries I finally got were received within the same time frame - wrong delivery- put back and taken to post office -redelivered correctly! Missing

My order was supposed to be in my mailbox, and it wasn't this has happened more than once when there is a new driver, and I would like to know what mailbox he put it in